What you give today be it a smile or a frown is a choice you make. You can’t depend on people to bring the atmosphere to you, you need to have it in you, whatever it is you have to give that’s what people will receive. The first thing you sell to people is yourself. That’s right yourself. That is why first impressions are the key to a cordial relationship with people. If your karma is negative that’s what people will perceive about you. Friendship is about the relationship you built with them. You should always give what you would want the world to give to you. Sure there are challenging people that are beyond character. They will wean themselves out of your circle automatically. So don’t worry about them but be aware of how you are responding to them. See at the end of the day is all about you and your own personal perceptions of things.
It’s all about your attitude, what you carry in your head that makes you who you are, the little world you live in that will make or break your day. If you are living in chaos it doesn’t make it everyone else’s reality. It just means you’ve got unresolved issues. Bearing with difficult people is your key to maturity. Difficult people are your training teachers. They are there to challenge you to your next level. If you fake it, that is your smile, you won’t make it. You will be discovered and you will have lost the game in the long run. The best person to learn from is you!
Think about what type of person you are in your everyday dealings. Are you demanding or were you emphatic. You live and breathe the attitude you carry with you. People are not a temperature gaze to your happiness. If they are than you have admitted you have no control over yourself. Don’t make people scapegoat for your short comings. You must be the captain of your ship. As Captain, you are in charge of what goes in and out of your head. Excuses are for blamers and mourners. But you are better than that. Know yourself and seek self-improvement. Forebear to be reactive, be still and know there is a God.
That is why you are here.
